How Do I Overcome the Desire to Be Better Than My Friend?

Learn how to stop competing. The only person you should be competing with is yourself.  It isn’t even competing either.  It’s focusing on becoming a better person, by going through consistent and never ending improvement. 100 watts, through a lightbulb will barely light a dim room.  That same 100 watts through a laser beam will … Read more

What Is It like to Know That You’ll Never See Your Best Friend Again?

My best friend has been missing since February 11, 2013.  That is the last time we spoke.  She had sent me an email.  Shortly afterwards, she shut down all her social media profiles, moved, sold her car, cut off her phone, closed her business, etc.  She basically became a ghost, or a nun. On February … Read more

How Do I Surround Myself with People Who Are Smarter Than Me?

Let’s break this down.  You want to surround yourself with people who are smarter than you.  So there’s three categories here Have.   You want to have a smarter network. So what you’re trying to figure out is what you need to do to have this network. Do.  What you need to do in order to … Read more

Is It Normal for a Girl to Have Lunch with Someone That Isn’t Her Boyfriend?

One of my friends, she used to take me out to lunch all the time. She is such a sweetheart, always helping me out when I had absolutely nothing. She even laughed with me when my electricity went out and tried to help me get back on my feet when I had nothing. She was … Read more