True love is when you know how absolutely flawed the other party is, yet you still love them for who they are, and vice versa. True love does last forever. My grandmother and grandfather stayed together until his untimely death. He married her when she had nothing. She was working at a military commissary in … Read more
Yes. It’s when you’re no longer with them and you can’t get them out of your mind, so you do whatever it takes to try to get them back, even though you’re spending year after year failing at the task. — Originally posted on Quora. Leonard Kim consults startups and writes books like The Etiquette … Read more
Sometimes. Other times, I’ll meet an absolutely gorgeous girl. But she’ll be like, annoying. Extremely annoying. All she does is complain about this and that, basically to the point where her negativity drowns out her physical beauty. That is when I come to find that she is not my type. Would you want to wake … Read more
Someone on Quora had asked me: “I see many references to one’s social status, such as “date up” and “marry up,” etc. So, what’s my social status? I’m 33, white, single, healthy, I have a degree in CS and make $110K/yr. What’s the social status of this woman: 28, Chinese, single, healthy, worthless degree, $70K/yr. If we … Read more
Someone on Quora had asked me: “Is there an inverse of ‘friend-zoned’? For example, when a guy wants to be friends with a girl, but she misinterprets it for romantic interest” This is how I responded: Probably. I haven’t dated for about two years. I didn’t date for the last two years because I had … Read more
My friend was Skyping me one day while my mom was around. She wanted to talk to my mom instead of me, because, you know… she’s a lot more interesting than I am. I don’t blame her. If I was my friend, I’d rather talk to her instead of me as well. So they chatted. … Read more
I was asked on Quora whether a person should knock a girl’s ego if they are interested in her. They said, “She always tells me that she’s beautiful, and that she’s nice. She pretty much just compliments herself a lot. I know it sounds stupid, but one of the main reasons I like her is … Read more
Change how you feel about him or her. Dismiss the value he or she had in your life. Easy solution, right? Not really. It’s harder than it sounds. A lot harder. Nearly impossible. It took me six whole years to get over my ex, who I dated when I was 21. Six whole years of … Read more
Some background information about the person that asked this question: “My boyfriend and I go to the same college. He ended up graduating and got a job at a startup. We are still dating (long distance for 2+ years) and are pretty serious about each other. I already got a job at MNC, which is a consultancy … Read more
I was fine with it. I never thought it was a big deal. All girls ever did was date me for my money. Especially my ex. Until I didn’t have it anymore. Then I found this girl who lived in a studio apartment who didn’t care about a single thing. That was fun for a … Read more