Do Curses Really Exist?

Earlier this year, my mom told me that I should let this guy stay with me.  He was like fifty or something.  He worked as a “Fortune Teller”.  She wanted to be on good terms with him, because his sister employed her. Whatever.  My mom always tells me to do random things.  So I agreed.  … Read more

What Was the Most Rewarding Moment of Your Life?

This is a story that I’m embarrassed to share, as it is not something that I have done or accomplished myself. It isn’t even something I should feel rewarded about. Yet, for some reason, when I reflect through my life, this is the only moment that stands out. Quite frankly, I’m hesitant to even tell the story, … Read more

What Is It like to Experience Yourself Changing?

In my life, I’ve encountered change in all directions–for better or worse. Stability wasn’t something that I even knew existed in life, until recently An old mentor of mine used to say, “Once you stop growing, that is when you start dying. We change each day: for better or for worse.” In my life, I found this to … Read more

What’s My Social Status? Should I Date up or Down?

Someone on Quora had asked me: “I see many references to one’s social status, such as “date up” and “marry up,” etc. So, what’s my social status? I’m 33, white, single, healthy, I have a degree in CS and make $110K/yr. What’s the social status of this woman: 28, Chinese, single, healthy, worthless degree, $70K/yr. If we … Read more

From Empty Donut Shops to Local Hot Spots. How Mayly Tao Reshaped the Donut Industry.

On the first of February, I was taking a trip from my home to Vons to pick up a few groceries. On the way over, I wanted to stop by my local donut shop for a snack. You know, the kind of place that is always filled with cops but no one else ever goes … Read more