Stay. Understand that they have shortcomings. Forgive and move on. Leave. Feel like they have disappointed you. Decide to part ways so it doesn’t happen again, at least with this particular person. Change. Work together on a solution together to prevent something like this from happening again. — Originally posted on Quora. Leonard Kim consults … Read more
Love never just slowly fades away. Something replaces it, or some action or event triggers us to change how we feel. But as time goes by, the feelings don’t just slowly drift away. They need to be replaced with other feelings, or they just continually stay there. Haunting us, day after day, month after month, … Read more
True love is when you know how absolutely flawed the other party is, yet you still love them for who they are, and vice versa. True love does last forever. My grandmother and grandfather stayed together until his untimely death. He married her when she had nothing. She was working at a military commissary in … Read more
Yes. It’s when you’re no longer with them and you can’t get them out of your mind, so you do whatever it takes to try to get them back, even though you’re spending year after year failing at the task. — Originally posted on Quora. Leonard Kim consults startups and writes books like The Etiquette … Read more
Sometimes. Other times, I’ll meet an absolutely gorgeous girl. But she’ll be like, annoying. Extremely annoying. All she does is complain about this and that, basically to the point where her negativity drowns out her physical beauty. That is when I come to find that she is not my type. Would you want to wake … Read more
No one should live without loving someone with all your heart, to the point where you have to question if you’re crazy for the illogical actions you take. Example: Buying two of the same scarves in different colors. Then being selfless and deciding to give the one that is your favorite color to the other … Read more
This is a story that I’m embarrassed to share, as it is not something that I have done or accomplished myself. It isn’t even something I should feel rewarded about. Yet, for some reason, when I reflect through my life, this is the only moment that stands out. Quite frankly, I’m hesitant to even tell the story, … Read more
Someone on Quora had asked me: “I see many references to one’s social status, such as “date up” and “marry up,” etc. So, what’s my social status? I’m 33, white, single, healthy, I have a degree in CS and make $110K/yr. What’s the social status of this woman: 28, Chinese, single, healthy, worthless degree, $70K/yr. If we … Read more
Back in 2006, my ex and I were together. She was driving a 2000 Accord Coupe and I was driving a 2003 Buick Century. I know exactly what you’re thinking! Who in the world, who is 21 years old, drives a Buick Century? Well, let me help answer that question for you. Me. My mom … Read more
Someone on Quora had asked me: “Is there an inverse of ‘friend-zoned’? For example, when a guy wants to be friends with a girl, but she misinterprets it for romantic interest” This is how I responded: Probably. I haven’t dated for about two years. I didn’t date for the last two years because I had … Read more