Is It Normal for a Girl to Have Lunch with Someone That Isn’t Her Boyfriend?

One of my friends, she used to take me out to lunch all the time. She is such a sweetheart, always helping me out when I had absolutely nothing. She even laughed with me when my electricity went out and tried to help me get back on my feet when I had nothing. She was … Read more

Should I Stay Intellectual or Should I Try to Date While I’m in College?

Someone on Quora asked: Intellectual bookish to me = academic success and better personal growth at the risk of demoting the fair desire to seek a deeper bond with someone Dating = Spending a lot more money, time, and possibly stress over a girl, but it’s supposed to be good practice. What’s worse to miss out on, … Read more

What Are Your Choices When Someone You Care for Disappoints You?

Stay.  Understand that they have shortcomings.  Forgive and move on. Leave.  Feel like they have disappointed you.  Decide to part ways so it doesn’t happen again, at least with this particular person. Change.  Work together on a solution together to prevent something like this from happening again. — Originally posted on Quora. Leonard Kim consults … Read more

How Can We Know That Tragic Scars of Memories Are Healed?

On Quora, someone asked: Everybody has a few memories of a time past of being hurt, carrying guilt, hidden rage. It’s said that, “Time heals all wounds”. Is it true for you? Are you healed or, does it still haunt you? This was my response: Time doesn’t heal wounds. Identifying them and reflecting back on … Read more

The Best Way to Deal with Failure

Pause, reflect, learn the lessons from each failure, take a break, find yourself, attain an attitude of gratitude, think of three things you’re thankful for each morning, get eight hours of sleep a day, eat two meals every day, exercise, eliminate your expectations, forgive all the people who have wronged you, forgive yourself, stop living … Read more