Should I Stay Intellectual or Should I Try to Date While I’m in College?

Someone on Quora asked:

Intellectual bookish to me = academic success and better personal growth at the risk of demoting the fair desire to seek a deeper bond with someone

Dating = Spending a lot more money, time, and possibly stress over a girl, but it’s supposed to be good practice.

What’s worse to miss out on, yourself or what’s out there aka well, for me, all the women?

This was my response:

You should probably date. It’s like, good for you. Kinda. It’s not like all your free time is spent buried into a book. Use those extra hours doing something useful, like spending time with someone special.

Originally posted on Quora.

Leonard Kim consults startups and writes books like The Etiquette of Social Media: How to Connect and Respond to Others in the World of Social Media


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