What Is True Romance?

What Is True Romance?

Posted by on Apr 7, 2015 in Relationship Advice | 2 Comments

True Romance is when you know how absolutely flawed the other party is, yet you still love them for who they are, and vice versa. True Romance surely does last forever, as my grandmother and grandfather stayed together until his untimely death. He married her when she had nothing, while she was working at a…

10 Reasons You Need to Know Why You Shouldn’t Have a Rich Boyfriend

10 Reasons You Need to Know Why You Shouldn’t Have a Rich Boyfriend

Posted by on Mar 25, 2015 in Relationship Advice | No Comments

My friend Jiah Kim took on Best Selling Authors James and Claudia Altucher’s challenge of coming up with 10 ideas on how to improve my blog. If you don’t know what the 10 idea challenge is, it’s basically coming up with 10 ideas on how to improve upon what someone else is already doing. It’s a great…

Is There Such a Thing as Loving Someone Too Much?

Is There Such a Thing as Loving Someone Too Much?

Posted by on Mar 11, 2015 in Life Advice, Relationship Advice | 2 Comments

Yes. It’s when you’re no longer with them and you can’t get them out of your mind, so you do whatever it takes to try to get them back, even though you’re spending year after year failing at the task. — Originally posted on Quora. Leonard Kim consults startups and writes books like The Etiquette…

Is “You’re Not My Type” Code For “You’re Not Attractive Enough”?

Is “You’re Not My Type” Code For “You’re Not Attractive Enough”?

Posted by on Mar 10, 2015 in Relationship Advice | No Comments

Sometimes. Other times, I’ll meet an absolutely gorgeous girl. But she’ll be like, annoying. Extremely annoying. All she does is complain about this and that, basically to the point where her negativity drowns out her physical beauty. That is when I come to find that she is not my type. Would you want to wake…

What’s My Social Status? Should I Date up or Down?

What’s My Social Status? Should I Date up or Down?

Posted by on Feb 16, 2015 in Relationship Advice | No Comments

Someone on Quora had asked me: “I see many references to one’s social status, such as “date up” and “marry up,” etc. So, what’s my social status? I’m 33, white, single, healthy, I have a degree in CS and make $110K/yr. What’s the social status of this woman: 28, Chinese, single, healthy, worthless degree, $70K/yr. If we…

Is There an Inverse of “Friend-Zoned”?

Is There an Inverse of “Friend-Zoned”?

Posted by on Jan 6, 2015 in Relationship Advice | No Comments

Someone on Quora had asked me: “Is there an inverse of ‘friend-zoned’? For example, when a guy wants to be friends with a girl, but she misinterprets it for romantic interest” This is how I responded: Probably. I haven’t dated for about two years. I didn’t date for the last two years because I had…

What Should I Do if My Parents Oppose Interracial Marriage?

What Should I Do if My Parents Oppose Interracial Marriage?

Posted by on Jan 2, 2015 in Relationship Advice | 2 Comments

My friend was Skyping me one day while my mom was around. She wanted to talk to my mom instead of me, because, you know… she’s a lot more interesting than I am. I don’t blame her. If I was my friend, I’d rather talk to her instead of me as well. So they chatted….

Should You Knock a Girl’s Ego if You Are Interested in Her?

Should You Knock a Girl’s Ego if You Are Interested in Her?

Posted by on Dec 9, 2014 in Relationship Advice | 3 Comments

A person on Quora asked me if they should knock a girl’s ego if they are interested in her. They said, “She always tells me that she’s beautiful and that she’s nice and she pretty much just compliments herself a lot. I know it sounds stupid but one of the main reasons I like her is because…

I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Ex. How Can I Fix This?

I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Ex. How Can I Fix This?

Posted by on Nov 24, 2014 in Life Advice, Relationship Advice | 2 Comments

Change how you feel about him/her. Dismiss the value he/she had in your life. Easy solution, right? Not really. It’s harder than it sounds. A lot harder. Nearly impossible. It took me six whole years to get over my ex of whom I dated when I was 21. Six whole years of being miserable and…

Should I Take the Job in My Boyfriend’s Company?

Should I Take the Job in My Boyfriend’s Company?

Posted by on Nov 19, 2014 in Life Advice, Relationship Advice | No Comments

Some background information about the person that asked this question: “I have a boyfriend when I was in college senior to me. He passed out and got a job at a startup and we still kept dating, still are (long distance for 2+ years). We are pretty serious about each other. I already have got…