How Can We Know That Tragic Scars of Memories Are Healed?

On Quora, someone asked: Everybody has a few memories of a time past of being hurt, carrying guilt, hidden rage. It’s said that, “Time heals all wounds”. Is it true for you? Are you healed or, does it still haunt you? This was my response: Time doesn’t heal wounds. Identifying them and reflecting back on … Read more

The Best Way to Deal with Failure

Pause, reflect, learn the lessons from each failure, take a break, find yourself, attain an attitude of gratitude, think of three things you’re thankful for each morning, get eight hours of sleep a day, eat two meals every day, exercise, eliminate your expectations, forgive all the people who have wronged you, forgive yourself, stop living … Read more

Is It Possible for Your Love for Someone to Just Slowly Fade Away?

Love never just slowly fades away.  Something replaces it, or some action or event triggers us to change how we feel.  But as time goes by, the feelings don’t just slowly drift away.  They need to be replaced with other feelings, or they just continually stay there.  Haunting us, day after day, month after month, … Read more