I Got a Job Offer at Facebook. My Friends Stopped Talking to Me. Are They Really My Friends?

Someone on Quora asked: I recently got a job offer at Facebook and instead of being happy for me, some of the people I considered my closest friends stopped talking to me. Does this mean they’re not my friends? I kid you not, but the moment one of them found out I got an offer … Read more

Do Many Startup Founders Go to Therapy?

I personally didn’t when I went through hell and back.  However, reflecting back in hindsight, I’m pretty certain that I should have.  It would have probably helped me ease a lot of the anger, frustration, and the disastrous thoughts of what to do when I lost something like a client who was paying us $20,000 … Read more

How Do You Know When You’re “Taking It for Granted”?

Someone on Quora asked: It’s often said that we shouldn’t “take it for granted”. But how do you know when you are? Be it a job, a relationship of any kind, or someone’s feelings? This was my response: It’s pretty simple. Everything is taken for granted unless we consciously appreciate having it. Most times we … Read more

What Do You Do if Someone You Admired Discouraged You from Doing What You Love?

Are you talking about my mom? Hi mommy! How are you? I miss you! <33333 When I was younger, my mommy used to always tell me, “Don’t do that. You can’t do it. It’s stupid. It won’t work.” Then I would get sad and think, “This sucks. My mommy doesn’t love me or believe in … Read more

I’m Unemployed, Penniless, and I Want to Start a Company. What Do I Do?

The first step would be to find a job.  You need to pay to keep the roof over your head, food on the table, etc.  If you truly want to be an entrepreneur, I would suggest getting the worst job you can possibly think of.  Something you will absolutely loathe and hate.  That will inspire … Read more

What Is One Little Thing That Makes a Big Difference in Your Day?

Thinking each morning of at least three things for which I’m grateful. Or are we talking about something physical?  For physical things, I would say colored socks.  Colored socks make me happy. — Originally posted on Quora. Leonard Kim consults startups and writes books like The Etiquette of Social Media: How to Connect and Respond … Read more

How Can I Start an Interesting Conversation?

Someone on Quora asked: When a couple (say 2 to 12) of people are gathered in one spot and the conversation is non-existent, or boring, what techniques can be used to kick off an interesting exchange? This was my response: You’re already gathered with the people, right? You don’t have to invite them out and … Read more

Quora’s Overachievers Are Making Me Depressed. Am I a Loser?

No. You aren’t a loser. You’re cool. Kind of like rice krispies. They snap, crackle AND pop. That’s pretty awesome. For something so simple to be able to do three distinct things, all while submerged in milk. Want to know what I can do while submerged in milk? Drown. Is that cool? Nope. Not cool … Read more