What Saying Do People Need to Ignore?

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. This term only applies to the wealthy. When you’re wealthy, you diversify. When you’re trying to become wealthy, you put all your energy and focus into one thing, until you become wealthy. Then, you diversify. I don’t know a single person who got rich by trying to … Read more

Do Curses Really Exist?

Earlier this year, my mom told me that I should let this guy stay with me.  He was like fifty or something.  He worked as a “Fortune Teller”.  She wanted to be on good terms with him, because his sister employed her. Whatever.  My mom always tells me to do random things.  So I agreed.  … Read more

What Was the Most Rewarding Moment of Your Life?

This is a story that I’m embarrassed to share, as it is not something that I have done or accomplished myself. It isn’t even something I should feel rewarded about. Yet, for some reason, when I reflect through my life, this is the only moment that stands out. Quite frankly, I’m hesitant to even tell the story, … Read more

What Is It like to Experience Yourself Changing?

In my life, I’ve encountered change in all directions–for better or worse. Stability wasn’t something that I even knew existed in life, until recently An old mentor of mine used to say, “Once you stop growing, that is when you start dying. We change each day: for better or for worse.” In my life, I found this to … Read more

What’s My Social Status? Should I Date up or Down?

Someone on Quora had asked me: “I see many references to one’s social status, such as “date up” and “marry up,” etc. So, what’s my social status? I’m 33, white, single, healthy, I have a degree in CS and make $110K/yr. What’s the social status of this woman: 28, Chinese, single, healthy, worthless degree, $70K/yr. If we … Read more